Saturday, June 20, 2009

My cousin Anna Mae drove down from Baltimore to stay with me last night and we are here Mom's room writing this update. She had a small episode a little bit ago, but is stable now. She was fighting the ventilator so it wasn't able to push air in to help her breathe. The nurse was quick to respond and was able to stabilize her, but it was a little scary. Anna and I went into the waiting room while they worked on her and I can't describe how helpful she was. Amazing. Anyways, we talked to Uncle John on the phone who explained what happened and then after about 15 minutes we were able to come back in the room. She was back sleeping again.

Anna and I went to pick up my friend Katie from Ohio who flew in to stay with me for the weekend. Aunt Debbie and Shira stayed with her while we were gone and the doc gave her a breathing treatment to help with her asthma. They believe that her asthma may be one of the reasons she is coughing so much and the reason for her episode earlier.

Katie and I are here in the room now. We got to talk with her day nurse for awhile who was very helpful. Mom was again trying to get out of bed, but finally we thought to just ask if she was in pain (since she is no longer on the IV drip, but rather is getting pain medicine as needed) and she nodded yes. This was encouraging to me because she has not been very responsive today or yesterday evening. Her nurse gave her meds and she is now much much calmer. I asked her to close her eyes if she wanted her rag over her eyes and she did. Just to be sure, we asked her to open them and she did that too. So she is now resting in classic Momma Shal form -- out cold with a wet rag over her eyes :-)

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thank you Sara for so wonderfully keeping us all informed! Please send all my love and best wishes to your Mom and Dad; and to YOU!
MMonarch

Jill Linton said...

Just wanted you all to know that I was thinking of you and praying for all of you.
Jill Linton

Anonymous said...

Sounds like a rough day! You're doing a great job! I hope you can all get some good rest tonight and that tomorrow will be a better day. Thanks for keeping us posted! Love and prayers, Joyce

Lindsay said...

Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and your family.

Lindsay

Unknown said...

Hi Sara sweetie,
I'm sorry I'm not with you today (nursing my sick doggie), but I can come over this evening if needed. I am truly amazed with the way you are caring for your Mom. Of course you love her so very much, we all do, but being by her bedside daily is a lot for a young woman to take on. I'm so glad your cousin Anna and friend Katy came in to offer their love and support. With both your Dad and Grandma Florence not feeling well, there are fewer folks to help out, but maybe we can get on some kind of schedule. Sending you hugs and kisses,
Aunt Debbie

Anonymous said...

Hi Sara/Bob

We have been reading your daily blog and it's great what you are doing for cousin Maureen.
Keep up the good work.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mick, Maria + Darragh (Donegal)

Anonymous said...

Sara,

It's really great that you're able to keep everyone up-to-date while providing so much care for your mother. We all appreciate your effort. Our thoughts and best wishes are with you, your mother and you father.

Conor M. and Tab

Anonymous said...

hi guys we're comning down to see you later today
love, Marsha and Sheldon

Anonymous said...

Bob and Sara,

We're thinking of you everyday. Sara thank you for the up-dates. I'm sure
your Mom and Dad are very proud of you.

Love to all,
Bob and Carole Schuman

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